Hey, here’s where I’m at.

I do creative work under the name RopeMarks that includes mostly photo, video, workshops, and performances in the world of Japanese rope bondage (some call it kinbaku, some shibari, some just bondage). It’s intense, emotional, sometimes strange in the best way… and I love it. Yes, I do this professionally, but honestly, it’s also something I put a lot of myself into.

I don’t need a big crew around me. I work best with one or two people who really get it, who aren’t just models or rope partners, but people who show up with presence, honesty, and consistency. It’s not about being perfect, just about being real.

What I’m looking for:

    • I’m looking to connect with biological females. I know that’s a specific boundary, and I say it with full respect for others.
    • You show up, not just physically, but emotionally too
    • You’re okay with intensity, rope, feelings, cameras (visible, recognizable optional), weird moments
    • You’re open to building something that’s not rushed or flaky
    • You communicate like an adult and know your boundaries

What this isn’t:

  • Not about flirting, play for the sake of it, or “just seeing what happens”
  • Not one-and-done, I’m into building trust and working over time 

I’m, still, growing RopeMarks slowly and intentionally, I want it to stay honest, creative, and solid. If any of this hits home for you, send a message. Let me know who you are, what you’re drawn to, and what kind of stuff you’d be excited to explore.

You don’t need experience. You just need to be present, open, and sincere.

One more thing:

I’m also open to building a personal connection. There’s a balance for me between the creative side of what I do, RopeMarks, and the personal me. I’m not just about the work, the ropes, and the photos; there’s a person behind all of that. I believe that when two people come together, it can be something more than the sum of its parts. If you’re feeling this, where both the personal and the creative sides can thrive…

let’s see where it goes.

Who am I

Honestly? I’m the kind of person who moves slow but steady, with people, with rope, with the things that matter to me. I don’t really do rushed. If we’re working together, collaborating, tying, or just building something, I want it to feel real. Grounded. Thoughtful.

People often call me calm, patient, maybe a little quiet at first. I tend to observe more than jump in. But once I feel a connection, creative or personal, I’m all in. I care about what I do, and about the people I choose to do it with.

I’ve got a bit of a nerd streak but it’s under control, unless it’s meaningful for the situation.

I value honesty. Clear boundaries. Good energy. And showing up, emotionally, physically, consistently. I like things that have depth, even when they’re quiet. I do not live this as serious as it may sound.

If you’re into astrology, you might find it interesting: Cancer sun, Taurus moon, Libra rising. Which mostly just means I care a lot, I value stability, and I try to make things feel good, for everyone involved.

What I’m not? Flaky, impulsive, or in it for attention. Not my scene.

So yeah, that’s a bit of me. Let’s have the conversation and see if something good can grow from it.

 

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